For a self-sufficient, high-earning man, a woman’s earning potential carries very little weight. Because we have always been taught that nobody is going to pay our way in life.This gives men the freedom to choose a partner based on what matters most – character, kindness, fun, humor, compatibility – as opposed to mere earning potential. So why do women treat being high-earners like it’s a curse?And that’s before you’ve considered kindness, compatibility, attraction, values, height, weight, age, humor, children, etc. We’re not looking at you to support us because we can support ourselves, so we’re free to choose whomever we want.The question remains: if you can support yourself as well as any man can support himself, what DIFFERENCE does it make what he earns? It’s advice for “Sugar Babies” on how to wheedle out the cash and gifts, all the while avoiding having sex with the generous “Sugar Daddy”. Because wealthy older men provide us with the most important thing: freedom!The ladies are not in these relationships for the emotional or intellectual benefits an older man brings. They provide their sugar babies with a steady source of income.Maggie Archer, a 20-year-old student from Missouri, has a pretty interesting strategy and it seems to be working, in a way.She simply writes, “Send me , see what happens.” That’s right, instead of using the app to find a date, Archer is using Tinder to scam money off gullible men, Buzz Feed reports. The student reveals that as soon as she matches with a guy and he inquires about the cryptic fee, she encourages him to send the money via Paypal.
Doesn’t the value of being self-sufficient come in not having to worry about someone supporting you?
To suggest otherwise diminishes what happens in genuine happy marriages, which are based on much more than a mercenary exchange for looks and money.
And men value women’s kindness and personality just as much as their looks.
How to get that income, putting out as little as possible? Pretend to be busy when you’re not and then call and pretend you’re bored and deliberately frustrate him sexually. Ask him if he likes phone sex or if he would rather wait until he sees you in person. Make it trivial enough to get you a one– or two-night reprieve, but not so petty that he won’t bother participating in the argument.
Before you say good night, tell him about everything you bought while you were out shopping (with his money, of course.) Better yet, describe in detail everything you didn’t buy but wish you had. And catch him off guard—sit casually in a chair while watching TV, look over at him, and lob a beef you’ve been holding back on.