Despite BPD getting a lot of negative flack on the internet, the reality is that these relationships are manageable (and often a lot of fun as long as you know what you’re doing…). In fact, most doctors these days don’t even want to diagnose BPD because it’s nearly impossible to do so! It doesn’t make his or her actions justified in any means, but you need to take responsibility or else you’re going to find yourself finger pointing and blaming everyone else for the problems in your life. I learned about taking responsibility through the lives of many successful individuals and popular figures such as Brian Tracy, Richard Branson, Elliot Hulse, Steve Jobs, Jim Rohn, Zig Zigler, Ryan Lee, etc. It’s why it’s a big part of my BPD Relationship Blueprint course (yes, you’ll want this course if you’re serious about your relationships).Car Notes: The 1998 Honda Accord suffers from widespread transmission failure, peeling paint, & subframe rust.
“Your marriage has died; you need to grieve that loss,” Barnett says.So here is a list of the most common reasons your husband’s ex acts like she hates you. She doesn’t hate you, she hates what you represent: The failure of her marriage, the break up of her family, the woman her ex-husband became a better man for, the fear that she might have ruined her child’s life by not being able to make the marriage work. She’s afraid her kids will love you more than they love her. This could include showing up at a parent-teacher conference, forcing the kids to call you mom (yes, that does actually happen), calling the kids “mine,” posting pictures of the kids on your Facebook page, trying to co-parent with her by responding to messages sent to your husband, etc… She perceives you as overstepping boundaries by participating in events she believes are reserved for “mom” and participating in events not only reserved for mom, but that are “firsts.” These might include: taking your stepdaughter to buy her first bra or getting her first haircut; participating in any sort of cosmetic experience (hair color/new hair style/ mani-pedi day); talking to her about the birds and the bees; painting her nails or coloring/cutting her hair the way like it or similar to yours (even if your step is a teen and she requests this, it could still push mom’s buttons). For a long time she could just ignore the painful feelings that accompany divorce. She may even be remarried, but never actually grieved the loss of her marriage and family. When she looks at your strengths, all she sees are her weaknesses.An irrational fear, as the chances of that happening are basically nil, but a common fear nonetheless. Think of any sort of milestone and you can be sure that mom wants to be there for it. Enter stepmom, and suddenly it’s real and it’s in her face. If she never thought she was a good business woman and you own your own business, that insecurity is magnified.The transmission begins slipping & eventually has to be replaced, typically soon after 100,000 miles & with a repair cost of over ,000. Peeling paint has also been a huge issue for these Accords. Tried to get DMV to buy it back as junker, but since it passed smog, they won't take it back. “It helped, because I got to see what 'normal' looked like,” Roché says.